You have forgotten how to be a man
The core of being a man is your masculine energy and your drive for freedom. Deep down inside, we are all the same: we all desire freedom and truth. When we move away from this, it means denying our nature, being something we are not, and moving toward a place of pain.
Without purpose, we are lost. We stop creating a life we actually fucking want and drift into a weakened state of existence where life feels hard and empty all the time. It’s why you harbor resentment for the world; it’s why men end up alone, broke, and unhappy.
Your Relationship
When your purpose becomes your partner, you slowly become a weakened, feminized version of yourself who abandons his own drive. Hormones change, testosterone plummets, and you start to physically decline. Some of you will even start to look like women, right down to developing man boobs.
I have been there; I know what it’s like (other than the man boobs). For a while, it felt like you had it made. Life was so good—you had a new girlfriend, started living full-time in your comfort zone, and prioritized what your Mrs. wanted and how she felt. Being a nice guy and not wanting to rock the boat has fucked everything up.
When it’s all said and done and she sends you the “I will always love you” text message, she does mean it. But what women always leave out is the bit about loving you the same way she loves a helpless puppy—because that’s what you have become in her eyes. She lost respect for you a long time ago, and that was when the relationship was over.
It’s a big, big mistake men make. They allow themselves to drift into a neutral middle ground and start acting like business partners or friends. This is why the passion dies, and ultimately, the relationship. As a man, it’s your fault. It is up to you to intentionally embody your masculine energy to keep the spark alive and the relationship going. Men being weak is the real problem.
It is pretty simple: if you sacrifice for women, they won’t respect you. If you make them your main purpose in life, it will go wrong. I can guarantee you that.
Your Career
When you make money your primary goal, you are prioritizing security and comfort over truth. And to be honest, it is killing you. The reason you’ve become fatter, lazier, and dumber lately is because you are living a lie, working for someone else’s dream.
When you put money first, you trade your freedom for money, and it costs you in the long run. Because the core drive of masculine energy is the pursuit of freedom, your soul knows you are a prisoner to someone else’s dream, and every day that goes by, you become more of a pussy. When you play it safe, make decisions based on fear, and stop living your true mission, you essentially trade your deep spiritual freedom for a cage made of financial safety.
This plays a role in turning men into big, fat cuddle bears who are too scared to say no to anyone—their boss, the Mrs., or their kids. Think about it: you have created a trap for yourself because you value comfort and security over everything else. You can’t walk away if you are scared of everything outside your comfort zone.
Returning to Your True Nature as a Man
Deep down, the way a man feels about himself is the way the world feels about him. That is why having a singularity of purpose and focusing on it is vitally important. When you refuse to grow, your comfort zone becomes a prison. By constantly retreating from fear rather than facing it, a man’s world shrinks, his confidence erodes, and he becomes fragile.
You don’t just stay the same; you slowly fade. This is why a man does not hide from his limitations; he finds his edge and lives there, pushing those boundaries forward without destroying himself. If you put other things ahead of your deepest purpose, you are living against your core truth, and your soul will register that you chose comfort over your mission. This breeds a quiet, toxic resentment toward your partner or your lifestyle, poisoning your daily energy.
My Truth
I can’t work for a bank or sit in a corporate office all day pushing someone else’s agenda. I don’t want to be a passive cog in a machine, tip-toeing around corporate politics and fake authority. I am a man; I don’t want to work with alpha boss bitches. I want to be free. When it comes down to it, as men, we are all on our own in life. When things go wrong and you move away from your true nature, you will find out pretty quickly that deep, deep down, no one gives a fuck about you.
It’s why being “Mr. Nice Guy” and not doing the shit that makes you you is the worst fucking idea anyone has ever had. It’s over, it’s finished, and there’s no coming back from it if you don’t man the fuck up and grow a pair.
That is why you must have a strong purpose. It is why you need to be who you are and do what God brought you here to do. You know who you are; you know what you are meant to fucking do. Look at the life you are building right now: are you moving toward your own freedom, or are you just decorating your own self-made cage?
If you want some help following your internal compass, book a call with me now.
Thanks for reading,
Adam ♥️
The Hard Truth
The Lie: You are telling yourself a story every morning to justify staying comfortable.
The Test: If you lost your relationship, your bank account, and your safety net tomorrow, who are you underneath it all?
The Cage: Look at the life you’re building. You aren’t building freedom—you’re just heavily decorating your cell.
What the fuck are you going to do about it?
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